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Talking about your family in Spanish

After this lesson you can name your relatives, say how many siblings you have and describe them in a sentence each.

Quick answer

Tengo dos hermanos. Mi madre se llama Carmen.

I have two siblings. My mother is called Carmen. Family words come with possessives, and Spanish uses "tener" where English uses "have got".

The words of this lesson

la familiathe family
el padre / la madrethe father / the mother
los padresthe parents
el hermano / la hermanathe brother / the sister
el hijo / la hijathe son / the daughter
el abuelo / la abuelathe grandfather / the grandmother
mayor / menorolder / younger
casado / solteromarried / single

The masculine plural covers mixed groups

Los padres means "the parents", not "the fathers", and los hermanos covers brothers and sisters together. A mixed group always takes the masculine plural, so tengo tres hermanos may well mean two sisters and a brother. If you need to be precise, say tengo dos hermanas y un hermano.

The same holds for los hijos (children), los abuelos (grandparents) and los tíos (aunt and uncle).

My, your, his: the possessives

The forms are mi, tu, su, nuestro. They agree with the thing owned, not the owner: mi hermano, mis hermanos, nuestra casa. And su covers his, her, your (formal) and their at once — context decides, so add a name if it would be unclear: la madre de Ana.

Spanish has no apostrophe s. "Ana's mother" is always la madre de Ana, built back to front.

Describing them

Use tener for age and relations — mi hermana tiene veinte años, tengo dos hijos — and ser for lasting qualities: mi padre es alto, mi abuela es muy simpática. Adjectives match the person: mi hermano es alto, mis hermanas son altas.

¿Tienes hermanos?Do you have any siblings?
Tengo una hermana mayor y un hermano menor.I have an older sister and a younger brother.
Mis padres viven en Valencia.My parents live in Valencia.
Mi abuela tiene ochenta y dos años.My grandmother is eighty-two.

Where you are matters

In Spain <span class="es-inline">mi chico</span> or <span class="es-inline">mi pareja</span> is common for a partner, while in much of Latin America you hear <span class="es-inline">mi novio</span> or <span class="es-inline">mi esposo</span> more often.

Memory trick

Possessives follow the noun, not the owner: mis hermanos even if the owner is one person.

A short dialogue

— ¿Cómo es tu familia?— What is your family like?
— Somos cuatro: mis padres, mi hermana y yo.— There are four of us: my parents, my sister and me.
— ¿Y tu hermana es mayor?— And is your sister older?
— Sí, tiene treinta años y está casada.— Yes, she is thirty and she is married.

Typical mistakes

Soy veinte años.

Tengo veinte años.

Age uses tener in Spanish: you "have" years rather than "are" them.

La madre de Ana → Ana's madre

La madre de Ana

Spanish has no apostrophe s; possession is built with de and reads back to front.

Mi hermanas son altas.

Mis hermanas son altas.

The possessive agrees in number with the noun it stands before, so a plural noun needs mis.

Practice

Practise these family

0/8 matched — tap a Spanish word, then its translation

Check yourself

How do you say "I am twenty years old"?

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