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parecer vs parecerse

Without the pronoun you are giving an impression; with it you are comparing two people. Learners use the first where they need the second.

parecer

seem, look, opinion

  • Parece cansado.
  • Me parece una buena idea.
  • Parece que va a llover.
  • ¿Qué te parece el plan?
  • Parecía más joven.

parecerse

resemble someone or something

  • Me parezco a mi padre.
  • Se parecen mucho.
  • No se parece a nadie.
  • Te pareces a tu hermana.
  • Esta ciudad se parece a Roma.

Quick answer

parecer = to seem, to look like, or to be someone’s opinion (me parece que…).
parecerse a = to resemble, to look like someone else.

Resemblance between two people or things always needs the reflexive pronoun plus a.

Side by side

Parece mi hermano. / Se parece a mi hermano.The first says he seems to be my brother; the second says he resembles him.
¿Qué te parece?What do you think? — the standard way of asking for an opinion.
Nos parecemos en el carácter.We are alike in character — parecerse can take en for the respect in which you are alike.

Memory trick

Comparing two people needs both pieces: the pronoun and <b>a</b>. Anything about impressions or opinions drops both.

Typical mistakes

Parezco a mi madre.

Me parezco a mi madre.

Resemblance needs the reflexive pronoun. Without it the sentence reads as "I seem to my mother".

Me parece a que va a llover.

Me parece que va a llover.

The opinion structure is me parece que, with no a. The a belongs only to parecerse.

Check yourself

Fill in: "Mi hijo ___ mucho a su abuelo."

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